26 May- 02 June Tarot, Oracle and Vera Sibilla Reading

For this week's reading I'm using The Alchemical Tarot: Renewed Fourth Edition by Robert M. Place (Copyright 1994-2007-2015 Hermes Publishing All Rights Reserved), The Oracle of the Dragonfae by Lucy Cavendish, Nicole Cadet, Selina Fenech, Debbie Lean, Kylie McDonough, Sharon Mcleod (1st Edition only), Jimmy Manton (2nd edition only), Ravynne Phelan and Toni Carmine Salerno, (Note: Used both decks to show you what has changed verses what has stayed the same.), La Vera Sibilla Italiana ("Everyday Oracle") Copyright 2007 Lo Scarabeo All Rights Reserved.

Without further ado, let's begin with the Oracle of the Dragonfae:

You may find yourself in a situation where you may have to withhold information or aspects of yourself to others because it will make others become uncomfortable with your presence. This could be simply dealing with close-minded bigots who will never understand you no matter what you do or say. Don't let them control how you live your life and don't let them intimidate you if you must encounter them. This is also a reason to spend time with those who do accept you as you are without needing to "fix" you or submit what they want you to be. Real friends will appreciate you for who you are and what you have to offer. With the current political climate in the world, having trustworthy friends and colleagues is absolutely essential. This is also an invitation to end any relationships with those who won't allow you to truly be yourself around them. Especially, if everytime you interact with them, it causes you stress, conflict or leaves you feeling drained or disempowered. Go inward and dive deep into the messages you receive at nighttime. Pay attention to how the moon cycles affect you and adjust your plans accordingly. (Ex: If you have more energy during a full moon than a new moon then start during the full moon and work toward completion (or to the first/next milestone) instead of starting at the new moon and ending at the full moon.)

If you work with Astrology then use your moon sign to help you unpack how you truly are so you can better handle specific circumstances in your life from a different perspective.

It's time to stop procrastinating and address bad habits sabotaging your current routine. You need to make changes that will force you outside of your comfort zone because staying where you are at any longer is going to cause you more suffering than having taken the first step. This week offers you the ability to really get to know who people are at their core. Group collaborations will be especially impactful to you. You could end up with new friendships that will last. Take what you do seriously. Don't let others distract you from reaching the end point of your goal. Continue doing the work necessary and don't stop until it is done. Taking a break is fine but giving up is not an option at this point or you will face major ramifications. Take on constructed criticism as tool to help you improve your skills rather than treating it like a personal attack. If it helps you get better than it is worth it, if it doesn't then you can absolutely ignore it.

You may feel that like something is missing or that people have left you behind but that is not the case. It is time to address self-sabotage, self-loathing and any other vice preventing you from seeing where you need to be in life. Realign yourself with what you want in your life rather than settling on what you have at the moment. Consistency will be key if you want to see any results. Doing one little thing everyday will make a significant difference in the end. You will reap what you sow so keep up the hard work. You can turn into the needs of others by listening to the messages they are conveying through their actions and body language rather than just what they are saying. It will be reveal more crucial details that will be beneficial to you and others around you.

Travel opportunities may present themselves this week. Where will you go? With that being said, it could also refer to relocating to a new place (ex: moving house, a new job or a job's new physical location) and receiving assistance should you reach out for it. You may also be visited by friends who live far away (or even abroad) from you or vice-versa. If you get the chance to travel, it will be well worth it.

Moving on to the Alchemical Tarot:

Find your creative muse and let it run wild. Unleash your full potential without holding back. So what if it sucks in the beginning? That's how we learn and improve. There's something begging to get out of you. Whether that's an art project, poetry, music, writing a book, learning a new language et cetera. Whatever it may be, it is time to put it to the test. Following this, if you have been waiting on someone to get back with you with a crucial decision. Good news! They have finally made their choice and you can move forward to the next step now. This is in spite of the fact that there will be a chaotic mess to clean up (either metaphorically, physically or both). Expect situations getting out of control and people who took on more than can handle to suddenly need immediate assistance. They will be held accountable but you may have to rescue them in the aftermath. Yes, it will suck but it is a good lesson for everyone to learn what their limits are and where they can delegate tasks when it get out of control.

 A deceitful woman's self harm is caused by a failure to compromise, disagreement, or separation based on news, communication, or package from a man (You [if you identify as male], a boyfriend, lover, husband, sibling, etc) who anticipating the arrival of someone or something for a celebration (ex: birthday, graduation, wedding, event, etc) to reveal potential legal trouble, possible jail time, or simply being forced to see a commitment through to the end via SMS message, email, phone call, etc. 

19-26 May 2025 Weekly Tarot, Oracle and Il Vostro Destino Reading

Welcome to a new week. This week I have decided to use Il Vostro Destino, Shadowscapes Tarot by Stephanie Pui-Mun Law and Barbara Moore and Alice The Wonderland Oracle by Lucy Cavendish and Jasmine Becket-Griffith. Let's start this week off with Il Vostro Destino:

Deception causes problems in the workplace and is going to negatively impact your social life due to reckless actions being made. A man (your boyfriend, husband, father or fatherly figure, or mature man) in your life is disappointed because the current atmosphere of indecision and uncertainty that's causing failure, feelings of discouragement or simply not getting the assistance you need when you need it. A man who is stern but fair (this could be a judge, lawyer or other professional) will address a conflict between colleagues, money being spent irresponsibly, or an obstacle stopping progress in the workplace. Beware of scams! There are becoming more prominent and you must stay vigilant.

Let's move on to the Shadowscapes Tarot: 

Lies have been exposed and the mask is off. You may find that if someone was trying to keep something from you or flat out lied to you, they will get exposed for doing so. The true intentions have been revealed and you will know who exactly you can trust and who you need to set better boundaries with (or cut off entirely going forward). This will allow you to rid yourself of unnecessary tasks that can't be realistically done for your current deadline. This is also opening up your schedule so that you can have time for yourself. Just make sure you aren't dropping tasks prematurely or you will face consequences for it; even if you needed a break or were feeling overwhelmed. Perhaps, delegating that task to another person is the better option. Just make sure you address carelessness that's negatively impacting your life. Whether that's a lazy colleague in the workplace or your own recklessness in every aspect your life. People will confess to you and a secret will be revealed. You will finally get clarity when uncertainty has been a common everyday occurrence. You will get the answer and feedback you need without any vagueness. A decision is finally being made for better or worse. If you're the one making the decision then you need to stand firm and dedicate yourself to it without making excuses. It's time to take the next step of that plan without delay. This in turn will lead to you overcoming any challenges sent your way and you will achieve the desired results. However, there is still more work to be down in order to get what you want. So don't forget to finish what needs to be completed. Be yourself in control. Acknowledge your self-sabotaging habits and do what needs to be done to circumnavigate them so that you can overcome obstacles causing you to feel stuck. This will ultimately require you to go inward and seeking our guidance from a trusted individual or personal. This can also allow you to give invaluable advice to someone who could truly need it at this very moment in time. Be open to learning new things this week.

 

Let's move on to the Alice the Wonderland Oracle:  Get to know who you are at your core. Unpack expectations set out by the world and find out who you are and who you truly want to be and what you truly want out of life. Address inauthentic behaviours that are forcing you into a role that society deems acceptable to make them feel more comfortable at your expense. (Obviously if you need to shapeshifter for your own physical safety then by all means but if you are in a place where you can safely be yourself then you need to express yourself freely even if it makes other uncomfortable). Whether you have just returned from a holiday/vacation or have been out of your element lately. It is time to return to your day to day life. Make the most of mundane days. Work toward your goals so that you can later celebrate it. Stay focused on what matters rather than an unrealistic fantasy that can't be pursued. Ground yourself and set realistic expectations for yourself so you don't get disappointed later on. 

Stand up for yourself and call out misinformation and disinformation being spread both online and in person. Call out behaviour where you see it and don't back down even if they attempt to intimidate you into silence. Keep open to discussion and possibilities outside of your initial expectations. It will be worth it even if it seems strange, scary, and/or undesirable at first glance. Try it out before you decide it is not for you. I know times are seem bleak and it seems that there's something horrible happening on a regular basis but know this: there are better times ahead. Even if they seem incredibly far away at the moment. You will persevere and it will be worth it. Change is coming for better or worse. Be open to what comes your way and adjust your plans accordingly. Put your best efforts to the test. You may have to complete tasks at a quicker pace then you normally do. Keep that in mind. Especially, if you are looking to advance your skillset. What you put into something is what you are going to get out of it. Not half-assing/arsing it or you don't get be surprised when something doesn't turn it out the way you want to.

Don't deny what makes you stand out from others. You can call yourself normal all you want but what is "normal" anyway? What makes society comfortable with your presense? Don't fall for the need to fit into what the unrealistic expectations of what others expect from you because it keeps them comfortable while you suffer. Everyone has their individual quirks and can provide amazing and life-changing experiences in your life. This also applies to you and how you impact the lives of others. Some people may only remember you from something weird you did many years ago. Even though you may have been a random person to them, you made a difference in their life. Albeit, very miminal but your influence made a difference on how they go about or avoid something. Don't underestimate yourself and what you can do.

When you have no idea where you want to do and where you want to go. It can feel like life is going on without you and you are drifting into a direction that may not be ideal for you at all. While you don't need to plan every aspect of your life but having no plan whatsoever (even if it is in the form a simple to-do list) can make you stuck, unfullfilled with your life and confused as to where you are going and what you are doing. What will your plan be? Keep this in mind for this week and work toward something that could benefit your life for the better.

Overall, be open to trying and experiencing new things, be your full self without compromise, true intentions will come out, don't be reckless with your actions and commit to any decision you make.

12-18 May 2025 Tarot, Oracle and Vera Sibilla reading

Welcome to another weekly Tarot, Oracle and Vera Sibilla reading for the week of 12-18 May 2025.  (Yes, I had a great birthday last week in case anybody reading this was wondering.) I decided to use the Happy Tarot (1st Edition) by Serena Ficca, Field Guide to Garden Dragons by Arwen Lynch and Stanley Morrison and Sibilla '800 by Luigi Scapini and Carla Collesi Billi. 

Let's get this week started with the Happy Tarot:

There appears to be half-assed work being done. People are either taking on too many tasks that it's not realistic to get them all done within the necessary timeframe or people are getting out of doing certain projects because they might not be motivated to actually get it done. This will impact how work gets done around you. If this is you then you need to delegate or drop projects you know you cannot complete. Be honest with yourself and others about what can be done in a realistic deadline. If you have been slacking then you need to pick up the pace or you will face the consequences.

You will get a fresh start with a specific goal or objective that has been too difficult or out of reach. You will finally have the answer you need. You could even get the money you needed to get the next step done.

You will need to step away from a trying situation and take a break. It is not worth the mental or physical effort this week and will just cause you unnecessary stress that you don't need. Nobody wants that! There will be an invitation, a gift or a good-will gesture that will build a new connection, relationship (friendship, romance, or business) or an opportunity that will ultimately be to your benefit. As with any opportunity, make sure you read the fine print and research it before you accept it. Otherwise, you will be greatly disappointed. 

(Ex:"Network marketing" is not an opportunity, it's just another term for a pyramid scheme or an MLM (Multi-Level Marketing) scam.)

A difficult decision, a disappointment or a betrayal will cause you to feel stuck. Your own limitations are holding you back. It is time to address limiting beliefs and self-sabotaging habits and behaviours because they are what are ultimately stopping you from taking the next step forward. Seek professional help should you need it. It is not shameful to admit where you need help and accept it; because you will need their assistance whether you like it or not.

You will experience a major reality check this week. You could have seen the writing on the wall or it will be totally unexpected. Either way, it will be a significant shift that will be turbulent and force you to switch up your plans, remove toxic influences (ie: people, vices, etc) and understand that this was unavoidable. Have an open mind with what follows afterward because it will help you become successful and get recognised for your hard work and efforts. Even if it initially blows up in your face and causes chaos. Don't dwell on the past. You cannot change it but you can change what happens next.  Have an open mind and be willing to try something that goes completely outside your comfort zone but also understand where your boundaries lie. Are they too open that you get easily manipulated into situation that you don't consent to? Or are they too strict that nobody can be there for you or help you when you are in dire straits? Find a good balance because too open or too closed are both unhealthy boundaries.

Overall: Hold yourself (and others in your workplace) accountable, give yourself room to breath, be open to new possibilities that could change your life for the better in spite of challenges, chaotic change, overcoming mindsets holding you back and knowing what to say "yes" to and what to avoid going forward.

Moving on to the Sibilla '800:

You are feeling powerless, isolated or stuck because of private meeting of a sensitive nature or a rapidly evolving situation impacting you through self-harm, negative thoughts, overspending or people in your space creating a toxic environment by taking advantage of your need to heal or "fix" a situation that is taken much longer than necessary to overcome. But fear not, you will get exactly what you're worked toward and someone is coming to help you achieve it. Be patient and be open to accepting help from a benefactor, trustworthy person, business contact or a generous man in you life.

Finally, the Field Guide to Garden Dragons offers us this message:

Know exactly what you are getting yourself into before saying yes to anything. Don't let others manipulate you into saying yes without conducting your own research first. Trust your intuition. If something doesn't feel right, look into it further (ex: Is [insert search term here] a scam?") and then if what you find is questionable then reject the offer. This also applies if you can't find anything about what's being advertised to you. It is easy to be targeted when we are in a vulnerable situation so don't fall prey to the manipulation. 

If you are looking for someone to collaborate with in the workplace, who best matches your goals and ambitions? Consider who really gets you as it will unleash your creativity and help you get your foot in the door for future endeavours that best match what you want our of your career opportunities. This is also crucial to consider when looking for new friends and/or potential romantic partner. If you can be your full self with someone (or multiple people) then your relationships will be able to thrive. Even if you don't agree with everything they do or believe in. It is how well you connect with them that matters.

You will be rewarded for your hard work and there may be others in your space to help get your there. Show kindness in your words and actions but don't be afraid to stand up for yourself when necessary. You could find yourself receiving unexpected help from someone checking up on how you are doing. They are more then willing to help you should you be willing to accept it. They could even offer accomodations (if this applies to you). Find somewhere you can thrive in. They can mean moving house, moving abroad to a country that best fits your ideals, getting rid of unneccessary clutter in your place or creating a physical space just for you and what you need it to be.

You have the opportunity make a new friend or potentially strong business collaboration with someone who complements your talents and skills. This is also a call for you to offer your services to others who can genuinely benefit from them. Have an open mind with a new person wishing to work with you. It could be just what you need to reach your goals. Rapid progress will be made for each goal you commit to. Address any venture that needs to be adjusted or abandoned entirely as they will hold you back and hinder your progress. Don't let these stand in your way.

Above all, each of these dragons want you to avoid being scammed, show off what you have to offer, collaborate with those who complement you, to find a place you thrive in, to be open minded and to commit to your goals so you can become successful.

 

04-10 May 2025 Weekly Tarot, Oracle, and Sibilla Reading

For this week's reading I decided to use the Son Tarot by Christopher Butler, Myths and Mermaids Oracle by Jasmine Becket-Griffith, Amber Logan and Kachina Mickeletto, and Sibilla della Zingara (Lo Scarabeo). Let's start with the Son Tarot:

Don't let nostalgia be what holds you back from going after what you want out of life. Life can seem unfair at times but that is not an excuse to stay stuck in our ways. It is time to switch things up and make the changes you want to see in the world. Even if nobody else is on board but you at the moment. Find your muse and use it to motivate you even when times get hard. Don't take on more than what you can handle. Life can sometimes come at us so fast that trying to keep up with it can be an absolute nightmare. Don't make it worse by trying to commit to everything that comes your way. Do what you know is going to be realistic to you and go from there. Delegate tasks that are too overwhelming or require assistance from others. Don't let chaos mislead you down the wrong path either. Get organised or the chaos will only worsen. Finally, time time for yourself this week. Whether that's taking break from social media, taking a mental health day at work,  meditation, taking a nap or simply allowing your thoughts space to breathe (ex: making to do lists, organising your thoughts by writing them down, etc).

Moving on to the Myths and Mermaids Oracle: Be wary of any rumours being spread. Let them go in one ear and out the other. Don't trust anything until you can verify what is being said is indeed factual. This is also a warning not to spread misinformation or disinformation on social media as it will cause a domino effect that could potential cause a lot of harm to innocent people down the line. It may seem innocent at first but you could find out later than it really wasn't. Learn to discern what is real and what is a narrative being spun to lure people into a false sense of security or panic. The rumours stop with you. Life can be hectic and it seems like there is so much going on that we forget to take a breather. Don't forget to allow yourself to rest every now and then. It is not giving up, it's taking a necessary break. We can only do so much so what are you doing to unwind and relax today? Make sure that you don't get caught up in fantasies and start actually going for whatever it is you are striving for. Are you being honest about progress you're making? What hasn't gone to plan because you didn't properly prepare for it? That is something worth addressing, especially if this is a reoccurring theme in your life. Address it and deal with the consequences (if there are any) and then move yourself in the right direction. Self-sabotage is what is holding you back. It's time to stop that!

Keep in mind that you are being monitored in what you do. This could be a higher up in the workplace (ex: manager, supervisor, CEO, etc) making sure you are completing the tasks set out for you to ensure that there are in alignment with the company's goals and expectations set out for you. If you have not been reaching these expectations, there will be consequences in the form of a coaching, write-up, demotion, suspension or worst case scenario: termination. Make sure you are not letting your work slip by the waste side. If you need to take time away from work because you performance is not going great then now would be a good time to use (if you have it and if it is available to you) PTO (Paid Time Off), vacation/holiday time off, or simply take a mental health day from work (if possible).

Otherwise, you will need to address your work performance and make adjustments necessary. If this is not a work related issue, then what are you doing to keep yourself safe in person and online? Is what you're posting contraversial? Could it potentially get you in trouble with the law? Did you recently attend a protest? Whatever it may be (and depending on where you are in the world) you will need to use specific online privacy tools going forward to keep yourself and your information safe. Do you have everything you need in case something horrible happens to you? Can you be contacted by those who need you in an emergency and vice-versa? Consider your options and don't do anything that will make you an easy target.

Keep yourself safe by all means necessary. It is about to get considerably intense out there. So don't take anything for granted.

Sometimes we have to handle situations ourselves and other times we need to take the lead and demonstrate our skills and talents to the best of our abilities. There's an opportunity for you to take on the role of a leader. Are you willing to accept it? How will you successfully lead others to success? What is your strategy to do this? What will make you stand out from others as a leader in what you do? These questions are worth considering, especially if you are applying for a leadership position in your career or already perform duties that require you to do so.

With that being said, know when to accept help from others when you need it. Especially, if you're normally the person being generous, helping others out in difficult situations and being there for someone when they need you most. Now it is your turn to be helped in your time of need. Don't be ashamed to reach out to others for help. Even if it feels embarassing and humiliating to do so. You won't regret it in the end.

Express what you are feeling with others. You can no longer hold it in any longer. Address the issue at hand so there can be a resolution to it. You can't let it linger any further. Say what's on your mind and look for a way to overcome this challenge you are facing. What's going to be the most beneficial to you? Don't suppress your emotions or they will bubble to the surface and you will lash out at the wrong people. Let yourself feel what you need to feel even if it makes other people feel uncomfortable. Don't hold yourself back anymore.

Be aware of any thoughts or desires that have been suppressed. They are about to resurface. Are you ready to face them? Determine whether or not these desires will be beneficial or detrimental to you. How can you address any invasive or otherwise detrimental thoughts from turning into something terrible? Are you ready to deal with these thoughts and desires? Will you deal with them on your own or with a professional?

Finally we move on to the Sibilla della Zingara:

Help with your everyday life and routine will require an agreement, promise or contact being signed in order to help you to keep going until you are successful. However, reckless and being influenced by delusional people is going to lead to long setbacks and perhaps a definite loss. You will have a chance to celebrate (ex: birthday party, wedding, graduation, etc) with friends (and/or family) but there appears to be serious doubts about someone who a skilled liar, prone to gossip or will backstab you at any given moment. Be mindful of who is in your space so you don't have a major issues harming you later on.

 

Birthday Tarot or Oracle reading prompts

 Since today (I’m posting this on 4th May 2025) is my birthday I figured I would do a birthday reading for myself. Instead of just choosing a random birthday spread I found from Instagram or elsewhere on social media; I decided to use my own prompts and draw 3 cards per prompt. I am using the Bonefire Tarot by Gabi Angus-West. Lets start with the first prompt:

”How can I best achieve my goals starting from my birthday moving forward?”

I am not going to reveal what I wrote for myself since this was a personal reading for myself but I will give an example of how I would answer each of these prompts:

”Stop letting self-sabotaging habits be what stops you from asking for receiving help with money and resources. Then once you have what you need, face the challenge head on. Be honest with yourself about where you want to go, what you want to do and how you’re going to go about it.”

The second prompt: ”What obstacles are currently standing in my way?”

"You’re not satisfied with where things are headed so you’re pushing yourself too hard instead of knowing where your limits are and resting here and there. You also just averted a potentially disastrous situation. Learn from your mistakes to avoid repeating them going forward."

Third prompt: Actions to avoid going forward (Draw 3 cards)

"Avoid not asking for help when you are in a dire situation. Be honest about your needs and communicate them so they can be addressed. Don't be taken advantage of by lazy people who want to take advantage of you. Whilst at the same time not relying too heavily on others to get things done for you. Stop being ignorant about situation you don't know anything about. Do your research, find out what your need to do and make sure you have all the information necessary to get this done. Otherwise, you will make a fool out of yourself."

Fourth prompt:  What lessons can I learn from my previous failures from my last birthday? (Draw 3 cards)

"Being burned out and frustrated is only going to make matters worse. Know your limits of what you can and cannot do. Delegate tasks where necessary and acknowledge where your own short-comings are. Don't let others manipulate you into doing what they want. Set clear and healthy boundaries with others so they know where they stand and what is not going to be acceptable if they want to continue collaborating with you going forward. Not willing to take criticism is going to hold you back. Criticism helps realise where you need to improve. It is not a personal attack on your character and if you see it as such then you need to learn to distinguish the difference. Make sure you have all the information you need before taking action naïvely or it will blow up in your face."

Fifth prompt: What I can expect going into the rest of this year from my birthday onwards? (Draw 3 cards)

"If you want your goals to happen then you need to move forward by taking the first step today. You will get a second chance after experiencing a failure that could have been a lot worse than it actually was. You won't be able to help others with money and resources as you will have to use what you already have. Don't misuse your time, money or resources or you will regret it. Assistance will not be available to you at this time so don't be reckless."

Final prompt: Birthday wish: Do this to make your birthday wish come true. (Draw 3 cards)

"Be open to planning changing at any given moment. You may have to put something aside for the time being before you can move on to the next task. Don't let yourself get taken advantage of by other people. Be specific about what you want or don't be disappointed if what you wanted turned out to not be as you expected it to be. Sometimes there's a catch to getting what we want. Are you willing to accept it?"