Hello Magical beings! Welcome to another weekly reading! For this week's reading I'm using Tarot of the Sidhe by Emily Carding Copyright 2010 Schiffer Publishing/Red Feather MBS All Rights Reserved, Oracle of the Mermaids by Lucy Cavendish and Selina Fenech Copyright 2013 Blue Angel Publishing All Rights Reserved and Il Vostro Destino Copyright Masenghini-Bergamo All Rights Reserved.
Let's get this week started off with the Tarot of the Sidhe:
We have dealt with a person being power hungry and trying to control and manipulate situations in their favour by using deceitful methods to get what they want. This has lead to misunderstandings, disorganisation and feeling incompetent in one's own abilities. Thankfully, a crucial decision has been made even if it was done in a panic or on impulse concerning cutting ties with a company, individual (ex: someone getting fired, deciding to quit or getting demoted and transferred to a different position), or collaborative effort that wasn't worth continuing going forward. You will know what to expect and will have a practical and organised person assist when dealing being treating unfairly, legal issues or simply making sure you stay out of trouble.
Moving on to the Oracle of the Mermaids we have:
The mermaids remind us that we need to address our unrealistic expectations when it comes to sexual gratification and intimacy with others. Acknowledge what you enjoy doing, what you are willing to experiment with and what you are not willing to consent to doing in the bedroom. Consent always must be communicated and any uncertainty will withdraw that consent. Be open-minded but also set boundaries where you need to. Address any self-loathing you have with your body and intimate partners. This will reveal what needs to be healed before you can experience what you desire. This may involve seeking out professional help (ex: therapist or doctor) and communicating your needs to each other to understand what can be changed. Understand that this is a very personal experience and not a competition. (Yes, random hookups can be satisfying too but getting to know someone deeply on personal level will amplify this).
With that being said, asexuals and people who don't have an active sex life for personal reasons: this can also apply to romantic or even platonic gestures of affection. (Ex: Make sure you ask for consent before giving someone a hug who may not want one). Respect other's boundaries and make sure yours are being respected without making them unreasonably toxic.
You are feeling trapped in your current circumstances. What needs to be addressed in your life that is making you feel powerless? This could be due to not taking responsibility for your own actions and how they can negatively impact others. It may have happened unintentionally but that doesn't mean that you can be reckless with your actions. Hold yourself accountable and make amends where necessary. This is also a reminder to not seek out instant gratification and needing everything in life to happen at a rapid pace. Slow down and enjoy what life has to offer you for the here and now. Even if the current situation is way less than idyllic at the moment.
Not being able fully to express yourself is corresponding to need to belong. In order to build trust with others then you need to open up and be able (and safe) to express yourself freely. This means being vulnerable with friends when you are struggling. If they truly are your friends then this will only strengthen your relationships with them. If not, then they weren't actually your friends to begin with. What side of yourself are you terrified with sharing to your friends, partner (potential partner, wife/husband/spouse, lover, friend with benefits) or even family members (that you are on good terms with, not estranged nor deceased)? Don't people please at the expense of your own happiness. We are especially in a time line where you need to, express yourself openly and authentically because forcing yourself to conform to others will give others permission to take advantage of you for their own personal gain. Don't let that be you!
This also goes hand-in-hand with your emotions and being able to freely express them. Even the most intense ones. Suppressing them is only going to hurt you and it will not make you any stronger as a person. Even if it society has falsely propagandised this lie for centuries. Men, especially need to know that it does not make you weak to vulnerably express your emotions in a healthy way. It does not make you weak, if anything it makes you stronger than those who refuse to express these emotions. Weak men are the ones who tell you that you must suppress your emotions because that's not masculine or strong men do. This is something for all men to unlearn as it causes so much harm to ourselves and other people around us.
Don't take advantage of the kindness that others show you whilst also not letting others manipulate you based on your generosity. It's always good to be able to help out others in need and receive assistance from others when you need it. Give without the expectation of needing something in return. Yes, it is nice if they can pay it forward but don't expect it when it is not possible (ex: giving a homeless person food or money). Find happiness knowing you made someone else's life better. Even if it was just for a moment.
When you know what you want out of life then you need to adjust your habits and schedule to align with these goals so that you can live the life you desire rather than what you've settled for and got too comfortable with.
Finally, read the fine print before accepting signing any contract, making any promise or committing to something that could potentially be detrimental to your life later on. Listen to your gut and pay attention to every red flag that presents itself to you. If it looks too good to be true then it probably is so don't pursue it if that happens to be the case.
Now we finally move on to Il Vostro Destino and see what the predict for this week:
We overcome a financial hardship or avoid a potential dangerous situation caused by reckless actions and not being able to go through a commitment. We are receiving clarity on how to resolve a situation that will make everything better for us in spite of bad choices being made. This will lead to the end of difficult situation, a crisis will be averted but it will come with the inability to get out old habits, lack of enthusiam or even the arrival of bad news. You are safe for now but don't let your guard down just yet or you will regret it later on.
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